No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent.

At the end of the Day you have to do what you need to do for you. Your the only one who has to wake up every morning and look yourself in the mirror and be happy with what you've done. Your the one who has to live with the decisions you make && how they will effect the rest of your life. So love hard but dont forget to love you because people always will try && bring you down.

I'm old enough to know better but too young to care. I let you think i dont understand when I really do. I understand more than you'll ever know. Ima good girl gone bad && i'll be gone forever. Dont waste your life hating on others because we're young && beautiful and it won't stay that way forever !

Female Perspective on " OUR WORTH "

Why do we let others determine our value or worth? Just because he's used to cubic zerconia and can't recognize 100% real diamond when he sees it. It's hard to apreciate something real if you've never had it. Don't let anyone tell you that you are less than you are. I don't know why we as females let males determine our worth and we let them dictate how we feel about us. No one should be able to dictate to you how you feel about YOU. Other females that tear you down are honestly just insecure and babygirl misery loves company. As for males they would rather have five easy girls than have to work with one girl worth the time. Easy girls will come and go but the relationship a real true female will want takes time to build. Males are scared to love because they fall harder than we do most of the time. The emotion gets the best of them so they run from it because it scares them that they could actually care about a girl this way. This leads right back to us feeling like we are not worth anything because HE left. Sweetie him leaving was a personal decision and people will come and go. If he left he just couldn't handle it. His insecurity should not sway your view of you. I know how it feels to be mad at ourself and put yourself down because he didn't stick around but, it finally made sense to me after a while that I wasn't the problem, HE was. If your one of those ladies who love yourself and don't feel anything is wrong with you BUT you with a guy that dosen't deserve a second look his way from you. Your insecure as well. If everyone around you can see that he's no good maybe he really isn't any good. And i'm not talking about your hating girl friends cuz we all got those friends that are gonna hate on everything regardless. I'm talking about legitimate advice from people who care. The excuses you'll make time and time again are "i love him" or " i put time into him" or justifying the way he treats you in any kind of way. What you should be doing is telling him to keep it moving , Love or NO love everyone deserves respect. Last NOTE : If you dont love yourself no one else will. If your always looking for someone to be there then maybe it's time to rethink you and yourself. All womens feelings of themselves should never be determined by another person. Your beautiful and special. Eventually things change and love will come flying your way :)

Understanding

"She's strong because she knows what it's lke to be weak && She keeps her guard up because she knows what it's like to cry herself to sleep."

I think this is a very profound statement because you really don't know anything until you've been there. You don't know what heartbreak is until you've experienced it && you dont know what it's like living without someone unless you've been there. You dont really comprehend what it's like if you yourself have never experienced it. You can't give advice on things you don't know && most importantly can't judge someone if you don't know what their going through. You probably couldnt walk a mile in another persons shoes. You can't stand tall if you never really hit the floor, The victory is in the struggle. You always come out with a lesson. You don't know what someone goes through so to judge them or critisize them is a waste of your life. You don't know what it feels like to be hurt until you've been hurt. Don't act like you know how they feel && you UNDERSTAND what their going through because you simply never will. Everyone's situation is very different. Doing it && saying it are two totally different things. Your the one who has to live with what you did so why should the next person be concerned(aside from people that love you , i am strickly talking about people who judge nd critisize because they hate you) about what i'm doing in my life. It's my life. I'm going to die alone nd tht wont ever change. At the end of the day your the only one who has to lay your head on the pillow nd try to sleep. YOUR the only persn who has to amswer to GOD about wht you did. People will always find a way to say they know you but if they havent been through what you've been through they dont know && they never will. REAL people know how to comfort you without feeling like they have to pitty you or critisize you. So before you jump to conclusions ask questions && know tht you can't get to the sunshine without going through the rain. LoveAlways , Jacquie ! Before your point your finger make sure your hands are clean !

Break me to Make me thats all you do when you assume you know when you really have no clue ! - jacqueline