Female Perspective on " OUR WORTH "

Why do we let others determine our value or worth? Just because he's used to cubic zerconia and can't recognize 100% real diamond when he sees it. It's hard to apreciate something real if you've never had it. Don't let anyone tell you that you are less than you are. I don't know why we as females let males determine our worth and we let them dictate how we feel about us. No one should be able to dictate to you how you feel about YOU. Other females that tear you down are honestly just insecure and babygirl misery loves company. As for males they would rather have five easy girls than have to work with one girl worth the time. Easy girls will come and go but the relationship a real true female will want takes time to build. Males are scared to love because they fall harder than we do most of the time. The emotion gets the best of them so they run from it because it scares them that they could actually care about a girl this way. This leads right back to us feeling like we are not worth anything because HE left. Sweetie him leaving was a personal decision and people will come and go. If he left he just couldn't handle it. His insecurity should not sway your view of you. I know how it feels to be mad at ourself and put yourself down because he didn't stick around but, it finally made sense to me after a while that I wasn't the problem, HE was. If your one of those ladies who love yourself and don't feel anything is wrong with you BUT you with a guy that dosen't deserve a second look his way from you. Your insecure as well. If everyone around you can see that he's no good maybe he really isn't any good. And i'm not talking about your hating girl friends cuz we all got those friends that are gonna hate on everything regardless. I'm talking about legitimate advice from people who care. The excuses you'll make time and time again are "i love him" or " i put time into him" or justifying the way he treats you in any kind of way. What you should be doing is telling him to keep it moving , Love or NO love everyone deserves respect. Last NOTE : If you dont love yourself no one else will. If your always looking for someone to be there then maybe it's time to rethink you and yourself. All womens feelings of themselves should never be determined by another person. Your beautiful and special. Eventually things change and love will come flying your way :)