"She's strong because she knows what it's lke to be weak && She keeps her guard up because she knows what it's like to cry herself to sleep."
I think this is a very profound statement because you really don't know anything until you've been there. You don't know what heartbreak is until you've experienced it && you dont know what it's like living without someone unless you've been there. You dont really comprehend what it's like if you yourself have never experienced it. You can't give advice on things you don't know && most importantly can't judge someone if you don't know what their going through. You probably couldnt walk a mile in another persons shoes. You can't stand tall if you never really hit the floor, The victory is in the struggle. You always come out with a lesson. You don't know what someone goes through so to judge them or critisize them is a waste of your life. You don't know what it feels like to be hurt until you've been hurt. Don't act like you know how they feel && you UNDERSTAND what their going through because you simply never will. Everyone's situation is very different. Doing it && saying it are two totally different things. Your the one who has to live with what you did so why should the next person be concerned(aside from people that love you , i am strickly talking about people who judge nd critisize because they hate you) about what i'm doing in my life. It's my life. I'm going to die alone nd tht wont ever change. At the end of the day your the only one who has to lay your head on the pillow nd try to sleep. YOUR the only persn who has to amswer to GOD about wht you did. People will always find a way to say they know you but if they havent been through what you've been through they dont know && they never will. REAL people know how to comfort you without feeling like they have to pitty you or critisize you. So before you jump to conclusions ask questions && know tht you can't get to the sunshine without going through the rain. LoveAlways , Jacquie ! Before your point your finger make sure your hands are clean !
Break me to Make me thats all you do when you assume you know when you really have no clue ! - jacqueline
